Perhaps one of the most positive developments in recent years has been our collective readiness to openly talk about mental health issues, big and small. It seems as though folks on a global scale are more willing to admit that life is tough, and whether you’re suffering from more serious issues such as clinical depression, body dysmorphia, substance abuse and anxiety disorders, or simply going through a rough patch, and feeling lost in the labyrinth of this thing we call existence, seeking out help is not to be scorned, nor should it be a source of shame.

Add to this the fact that many of us wholly uprooted our lives and made the move to Beijing, a confusing and frightening reality in its own right, and our access to resources become all the more murky, yet all the more urgent.

Suffice it to say that The Beatles weren’t wrong when they sang, “I get by with a little help from my friends.” Unfortunately though, our friends aren’t always equipped to provide us with the necessary emotional infrastructure to maintain a successfully balanced and healthy well-being.

To that end, we’re sharing a comprehensive list of multilingual counselors and organizations in Beijing who offer services ranging from workplace wellness, therapy for all ages, marriage counseling, cross-cultural relationships, and finding purpose, to adjustment issues.

The information below was compiled in November 2019 by local members of the counseling community, who state:

“All [counselors]say that they are fully certified with a professional body unless otherwise stated, however please make your own inquiries. All speak English and see adults. Sessions are 50-60 mins. Where a range of payment is indicated, it’s a needs-based sliding scale. Most counselors are also available online.”

Mike Shook MA, LMHC, NCC (Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Nationally Certified Counselor). Practices narrative therapy and feedback informed treatment and works mainly with children, adolescents, and adults. Available Tuesdays and Thursday from 10am – 5pm for online appointments, with limited in-person availability on Thursdays. RMB 350-800. WeChat: mshook. For more information click here or email mike@noomawellness.com.

Katie McLeod MA, MRes. Available Fridays 11am – 7pm and online Monday and Wednesday mornings. Currently seeking certification with CCPA. Flexible with location, RMB 200-800. Degree focus marriage and family therapy, adults, adolescence, or couples. WeChat: katiemcleod

Danielle Harris MSc. Shunyi, evenings and Saturdays. Online & face-to-face. Among others anxiety, addiction, depression, trauma, transition, stress loss. WeChat: dani-1926.

Karen Hurworth MA. Available weekdays 8am – 6pm & Saturdays 8am – noon. Shunyi district. RMB 600 per session. Variety of approaches to treat issues from depression, anxiety, relationship challenge and finding life purpose. WeChat: khurworth

Gaëlle Cassier. Psychoanalyst with a French clinical psychologist license and Masters. French, English, Chinese. Contact for fee. Lacanian psychoanalysis, research in cross-cultural approaches and psychosis. For more information click here, call 139 1101 0032, or email gaelle.cassier@xin-jing.com.

Dr. Michelle Mope Andersson English and Swedish, pastoral counselor for adults and couples, Dongzhimenwai. Travels every month or so. Needs based sliding scale. Existential therapy, marriage and family. For more information click here, or email mopeandersson@yahoo.com.

Dr. Birgit Mathon clinical psychologist and systemic psychotherapist, studied in Vienna and Stanford. Special fields: trauma, depression, anxiety, communication for couples. WeChat: BirgitMathonBeijing

Dr. Mike Merhvarz Psychologist, English, Farsi, Mandarin; individual, couple & marriage therapy; ADHD, ADD, Dyslexia, Asperger, Autism, pediatric developmental assessment, psychological and neuropsychological testing. International Medical Center, Beijing. For more information email dr.mike@imcclinics.com

Dr. Theo Cope Psychologist & Positive & Transcultural Psychotherapy, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, cross-cultural relationship, adjustment issues, addiction, bipolar. Raffles Medical Clinic. For more information email cope_theodore@rafflesmedical.com

Leon Lee, English and Mandarin, available seven days a week for adults, teens and couples in Chaoyang. RMB 600. Positive and Transcultural Psychotherapy. WeChat: leonptp (Assistant, Michael).

Titi Hill, BSc, MBACP. Individuals, couples, families. Weekdays in Shunyi, 798 and Chaoyang. RMB 950. For more information click here, here, call 186 1255 7824, or email info@beijingcounselling.com, or in- fo@hilldynamics.org. Titi Hill can also be reached via Skype at hilldynamics.

Ms. Masooma Kachelo, MS MFT, Certified Mindfulness Teacher, English. Works weekdays in the Shunyi/Chaoyang area. 15 years of experience. Uses mindfulness-based approaches for working with women suffering from depression, anxiety, and trauma related relational challenges. WeChat: mindfulturn-mas

Other Resources:

In crisis? Lifeline Shanghai offers free and confidential support via telephone from 10am – 10pm, 365 days a year. They are located in Shanghai but available to talk to anyone in China: tel. 400 821 1215.

Problems with alcohol? Click here for the Beijing chapter of Alcoholics Anonymous or call 189 1161 8759.

Bearapy offers wellness consulting and training to help make workplaces mentally healthy. For more information click here, or email client@bearapy.me

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Back in September we published an article about a mom who was struggling to find autism services for her child here in China. The story attracted such interest that we were contacted by a local autism professional, Eva Ma, who wanted to stress that Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) is not the only treatment for children with Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD).

In an effort to give our readers the clearest picture and the most amount of voices, this past Saturday (Nov 9) we attended a conference hosted by US-based autism clinic, Autism Partnership (AP), entitled Treatment That Changes Lives: Evolution of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) at the Bai Fu Yi Hotel near Dongzhimen.

AP Director, Toby Mountjoy, was kind enough to sit down with beijingkids and discuss a range of topics including the availability of resources for children with autism in China, ABA as the most effective therapy, and the new office that AP will be opening here in Beijing next year.  

Can you give us a very brief description of what autism is?

TM: The word autism comes from the Latin word for “within one’s self,” because when Hans Asperger came up with the name in 1942, the reason why he labeled them autistic is because they were different from the other kids in that sense that they seemed so within themselves, and socially were not connecting with people around them.

We don’t know what causes it. Some people might profess to know, but we don’t know what it is. There is some indication that genetics may play a part in the disorder because if you have twins, the chance of them both having autism is way higher, so that suggests that DNA is a part of that, but it’s not 100 percent.

It’s a behaviorally defined problem, meaning there’s no blood test, there’s no medical test you can do to evaluate it. It’s based upon an observation, taking the history of a child’s development. And they’re going to have issues in a number of areas. One of the areas is they’re going to have some kind of social deficit: they might be disinterested in what people do, you might see them wandering around at recess time, they maybe not able to form connections or friendships, they might lack the knowledge of how to read social cues, and so they might have a lot of anxiety in social situations knowing that they’re not very competent.

And then you’re going to have some communication and language deficits, and it’s not just understanding language, but the use of language. About 50 percent of the kids who come to our clinic aren’t speaking at all, and are way behind other kids their age.

We also often see a deficit in their play and leisure skills, and in some repetitive behaviors; maybe they like to line things up, or they might like to repeat behaviors over and over again like watching wheels on a car, paying attention to small details on toys, or doing repetitive motions with their body to pass time. Or if they don’t have that, maybe their play skills are not at the same level, or their imagination or creativity may not be quite there, or their interests may be very narrow.

So those are three main domains, and to get diagnosed with autism, you have to put a tick in all three boxes.

What is your view that autism is not a disability or difficulty, but rather a different way of being?

TM: There are many views on this these days. There’s a movement in neuro-diversity, and in particular some adults with very high functioning autism, and the movement believes we shouldn’t be thinking about treatment for autism because it’s not a disorder, it’s a way of being, it’s the way they’re born, and you shouldn’t be looking to eradicate that or change that. And some of the things that autism has bestowed upon them might be beneficial. Like their memory might be super sharp in terms of their ability to perform certain tasks. Anthony Hopkins has talked about having autism, and how it helps him see all the different aspects of a character and it made him a good actor.

But not all kids with autism are high functioning, and there’s many kids that, when we first see them, they have a lot of problems. They don’t know how to talk, they don’t know how to play, they don’t know how to engage with the world or really understand how to conduct themselves in lessons or in learning situations, which for us, is seemingly going to really narrow their options of what they might want to do when they’re older. We feel very strongly that we should guide children at a young age, give them skills, so that they can make decisions later on. In the old days, 50 percent of the population [with autism]would be non-verbal as adults, that isn’t going to open your options to jobs or relationships or many things that typical people take for granted.

So I think all the individual kids with autism are their own individual person, they bring their own individual personalities, they bring their own thing, and we’re not trying to eradicate their personality or create some mythical typical child, we’re just trying to help teach them things that will help them get on with life.

Can you tell us how Autism Partnership got started?

TM: AP was begun in 1994. I was originally hired by some parents in 1996 who had children with autism in Hong Kong, and they recruited Dr. Ronald Leaf from the United States to come to Hong Kong to organize and train a group of staff to work with their children. There weren’t a lot of resources in Hong Kong at that time for children with autism. So Ron Leaf came to Hong Kong, picked a team, trained us, would come back frequently from the States to oversee the cases and continue our training. That went on for a number of years, and then in 1999, we decided to open an office in Hong Kong under the umbrella of Autism Partnership which had offices in Los Angeles, so that we could hire the staff directly, provide better training, and provide more structure for the staff.

The title of this conference was Treatment That Changes Lives: Evolution of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA). Can you give us a brief rundown of how ABA has evolved over time?

TM: We’re presently quite concerned about the field of ABA. What’s occurred in the United States, which is a good thing, in pretty much all the states right now, an ABA program is covered by medical insurance which is really good. They can get an ABA program for free, and it’s an expensive program, incredibly labor-intensive.

However what it’s led towards is that hedge funds and big financial companies are buying up businesses in the United States and it’s a purely profitmaking exercise, and this has greatly affected the quality, and we’re worried that the people in the field are not well trained enough. We worry they’re not getting the right kind of oversight and supervision, and ABA over the last couple years has become extremely protocol-driven and mechanistic, simple in its application.

So we’re big advocates for what we call “Progressive ABA,” where we want staff to be well-trained, we want them to make decisions in the moment, we want them to be good teachers. We don’t want them to be protocol-driven or following rigid rules about how they teach the students. It takes a lot of training, it takes a lot more work, but I think it’s a superior way. We advocate for a naturalistic teaching. We want to work on things that are more meaningful, we don’t just want to work on academics and cognition, we work hard on play and leisure skills and social skills. They need a more rounded program, and sometimes ABA can be very narrow in its approach. So that’s kind of what we’ve been talking about today.

Can you tell us a little bit about the new Autism Partnership Center that will be opening in Beijing next year?

TM: We’ve been working in Hong Kong all those years, and mainland China is right on our doorstep, so we’ve often had phone calls from parents asking “can you come and provide services here?” The services and provisions in China are underfunded, the training and knowledge base is not extensive, there’s just not a lot of materials or training programs available. We wanted to see if we could build a center of excellence, so instead of parents hiring their own staff and us coming over to do training, flying up all the time, we wanted to have our own staff, train them for more extensive periods of time, and have people provide a much more comprehensive service like we do in Hong Kong. So that was the idea behind it.

Will it be a bilingual center?

TM: I think it will primarily be Chinese, but all of our consultants in Hong Kong speak English, so for expatriate families, they can certainly talk to us, there could be opportunities for us to send staff from Hong Kong to work with their children either in the office or where they live. But I’m imagining that a lot of the provision in the office will be in Chinese.

What resources are there in China for kids with autism, both expats and citizens?

TM: There’s a place here called Olivia’s Place, which is an agency specifically for expats, and that’s been here for some time, they provide some services. We [Autism Partnership] have provided some services, consultation and setting up some programs for expatriates here. In terms of the Chinese population, there’s a lot of non-profit organizations, and more so, over the last five years, for-profit organizations. A more common practice in China is that you go to a center, you do an hour of speech therapy a week, you do an hour of occupational therapy a week, you do a group. It’s not very intensive, it’s kind of an eclectic model of treatment.

You mentioned that Autism Partnership does some consulting work. What does that look like?

TM: We usually consult directly with parents. Depending on where the child is at, they may be in school, so if they have somebody who goes to school with them, we would help to train that person, we would provide the program, go in and watch what they’re doing in the school, work with the teacher and the aid to provide the program in a school setting. For a young child, we might be working at home and help the parents to find some staff or provide the staff. We have a number of parents who do that kind of model, because they’re having difficulty finding anything here. I’d imagine if you’re an expat, there aren’t a lot of early, intensive programs you can join that are in English.

How can people train to work with children with ASD?

TM: The best way to do it is to join an agency that provides great training. There’s some stuff you need to read and understand, as a didactic position, but the real learning occurs when you have somebody talk about a concept and then to sit down and demonstrate, and then actually do it, and have someone there to say, ‘that was good,” or “that wasn’t so good, you need to adjust and do it like this.”

There are qualifications you can obtain. There’s a board called the BCBA, which means you become a Board Certified Behavior Analyst, and there’s different levels of that training, but it’s a bit more difficult to access in China.

But the best way is to work with a high level agency, and work with some people who have been doing it a long time, and who really invest in their staff training. That’s really where you’re going to learn the real skills.”

What about parents who don’t have the resources to get a specialist?

TM: We’re not advocates of parents being the interventionists for a number of reasons. It’s a dual relationship, you’re their parent but then you’re also their therapist. There are things you may need to do in therapy that are not the same kind of thing you would do as a parent. I think it’s an enormous pressure on a parent to not only have a kid with autism, but to have to work with the child thirty hours a week on top of their daily duties, and feel the responsibility that the outcome of their child is resting on their shoulders.

But there are things parents need to learn. I think coming to a workshop like today is really helpful and informative for parents. We do some workshops that are practical, and more about what parents need to be doing at home. So if there’s problems like he/she doesn’t eat any food, or only eats bread, or there’s toilet training issues, or behavioral issues in the community, parents need to be knowledgeable about that and have practical skills, so we have some hands on training courses for those parents. But it’s really more on the day to day, as opposed to training them to be the interventionist.

What does the future of ABA look like?

TM: As I mentioned before, we’re worried about the field for the future because we feel it’s going to be dominated by less clinical intention and more profitability. And we’re worried that in the future, people will look badly on our profession, that the work will not have been done well, and people will come to hate what we do because of bad practices. So we hope we can continue to advocate for higher quality and better training.

Do you think the attitudes in China towards special needs and atypical behaviors are changing?

TM: I find that the parents in China are some of the most worried, anxious, and devoted parents, to be honest. As a group, they will contact us and say, “Alright, we’re going to do whatever we need to do, what do we need to do?” I think they’re often portrayed as a culture of being very reserved, not wanting to get help, they’re in denial, and that certainly occurs, but it occurs in all cultures. But to be honest, we find the families here are very passionate and keen to get services, to get their kids in treatment, and to mediate the problems. Especially with the parents I’m seeing who are 30, 35 years old, the younger generation. So yeah, I don’t think I feel that any more here than I do in say, the United States.

We see families all the time in Hong Kong, where the moms moved to Hong Kong so that the kid can get services for a year or two, and they have to separate their family. In mainland China, many families move from different provinces to Beijing or Shanghai where they have an agency that can provide, and mom is living on her own, with the child every day, away from friends and family. So they’re pretty dedicated and committed to be honest.

Some therapists would argue that ABA is not the only, or even the best, approach to therapy. How would you respond to that?

TM: I think we have to look at the research. We can’t be guided by subjective opinion about what we think is good, or not good, in the same way that we deal with medicine. We really need to have some science behind those claims and those evaluations. For example, some kids with autism are going to improve over time, not because of the therapy they’re receiving or the diet they’ve been eating, but because of maturation, they’ve gotten older. So you have to factor that in when you’re doing research.

ABA is a very well researched topic in the area of early intervention. Many many studies have shown the effectiveness of the approach. There aren’t many other therapies that have the same level of evidence that support that they’re as effective or more effective. There are many therapies today that are well-practiced that have shown not to be effective, but they’re still practiced just cause that’s what people do. And you’ll go to different countries and you’ll see how the culture of the country affects what services are available. For example, you can get acupuncture treatment for children with autism in Hong Kong, it’s quite common, but if you go to Los Angeles, it’s probably not widely available. So it’s not really based upon the effectiveness of that treatment, it’s based upon cultural values or other influences.

But for me it’s just a question of where’s the science? So don’t listen to my own opinions, but let’s look at the research. If you’re saying that ABA is not the only therapy, then you need to show me a research study that shows the combination of these therapies was superior to ABA alone. But if you’re doing five different therapies, it’s hard to know which one is working, that’s why when they do the research, they have to take those variables out. So again, I’d say we have to look at the research.

Photos: Drew Pittock, Autism Partnership, Pixabay

Living as an expat in China is difficult some days. There are many challenging situations to face, and sometimes help seems very much out of reach. Unfortunately, help is even harder for some people in our community than others. That is why licensed therapist Kindall Tyson wants to make mental health care more available for Beijing’s black community. Tyson believes it’s crucial to have access to mental health care that is culturally competent, which is why she has put together a six-week small group therapy session for black women.

Every Saturday for six weeks, up to 12 women will meet to address issues that are important to women in the black community. Topics explored during this group include the importance of a support system while living abroad, how to empower yourself and others, and effective ways to implement self-care practices. Perhaps the two most important topics covered are how to building a coalition to help destigmatize mental illness in the black community and how to thrive as a black woman in Beijing.

Kindall Tyson is a licensed counselor from Texas who has been involved in the mental health care field for five years, with an additional 11 years working in education. Tyson has served in Beijing for two years as the Secondary Counselor at an international school. While in China she has worked with various mental health advocacy groups to provide mental health workshops.

Tyson ardently believes that when clients and other stakeholders embark on the personal mission for self-awareness, self-love, and self-actualization, challenges they face can become the catalysts for positive change. Which is why she hosts many workshops and advocates to end destigmatization of mental health care in communities of color, across the globe. 

This event is available for black women of the diaspora who are over 18. The first session is on October 26, and will meet every Saturday for six weeks. Because consistency and confidentiality are important to any small group meeting it is encouraged that you commit to all six weeks. The location will be given to women once they have signed up. Contact Information: wechat: therapist_abroad, kindalltysonTX, Instagram at @aspire_counselingwell her website is www.aspirecounselingwell.net.

Adults. RMB 220 per session or 1200 for all 6 weeks upfront. Registration needed. 11am – 12.30pm. Location will be given after signing up. 

Photos: courtesy of Kindall Tyson 

Our recent post about a Beijing mom’s search for the therapy needed by her young son who has been diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD) provoked much discussion. Among those who contacted us was Eva Ma, a professional working in the field who wanted to emphasize that Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) is not the only therapy suitable for children with ASD. We asked her to tell us more.

Can you tell us about your background and training?

EM: I am an Occupational Therapist (OT). I was born and raised in Hong Kong, but I went to the US for my college education, and stayed on there for 26 years. I came to Beijing in August 2015 and worked as an OT at Olivia’s Place, and I’ve just moved to Hangzhou.

What sort of therapeutic approaches do you recommend for children with ASD?

EM: You need to look at the whole person, not just one aspect of their limitations. In the West you might have a physical therapist, a speech therapist, and an occupational therapist, and they may be doing the same or similar tasks but looking at different things. For example if the child is playing with a ball, a physical therapist might be looking at their balance, a speech therapist will be listening for whether they can ask for a bigger or smaller ball, and an OT might be looking at how they respond to their environment, such as whether they can follow directions when it’s noisy.

We use a play-based approach, typically driven by intrinsic values. We like to develop children’s internal drive, to have an idea for play, and executing that idea, adjusting according to their thoughts or feelings. We like to work in a natural environment, in a home or school setting. It’s about consistency, about learning steps and practicing them until the child feels confident, and able to go on to the next challenge level.

What’s your view of ABA?

EM: It’s one of the methods used, but it’s not the only one. It’s a very linear approach: the child does a task and they get a reward. Often food is used with younger children. But it can be too restrictive, it’s training a child in one moment of time to do certain things. Children with autism may not able to generalize that information. It may look like they can answer the question, but in real life they are not able to use the information effectively, functionally. So they may be able to count to 20, but if I say “go down the corridor to room number 12 and get a book,” are they able to scan the numbers, identify “1 2” as twelve, identify the book and bring it out?…

But you can understand that a parent who has seen their child make progress after a period of frustration will take a more positive view of ABA?

EM: In the US there’s a lot of research on ABA, and they’re able to “prove” it works by picking data every time the child gets something right. Based on those papers insurance companies say “ABA works.” For parents relying on just insurance, of course they’ll go for something that’s covered. One hour of occupational therapy can cost USD 100, so if you have to copay for 20 hours… you wouldn’t pick OT! We use a play-based approach, which is more difficult to measure. We do have a few studies showing it works, but we don’t go around advertising ourselves very well! And we prefer to work in a natural setting, in the home or school. But if support is provided in school insurers can say it’s education-related and refuse to cover it. Therapy has to take place in a medical center or clinic, which means taking the child out of school, dealing with travel and traffic…

How do you see provision of services for children with special needs in China?

EM: People think China is rich now, but medical care is so behind in the human aspect. Money can buy the latest technology like MRI scanners, but the hardest part is human resources. There’s a gap for a therapeutic approach. Expats often come thinking there should be services, but if you have a child with any kind of disability you can be quite isolated. Many schools are struggling to accept students with even mild learning difficulties or autism, because there’s not enough support. Sometimes schools have to be honest, and have to ask the child to leave the class or leave the school. I know some parents who just couldn’t do it, and had to go back to the west.

The stigma of having a disability is still so strong. If you go to a middle class Chinese school there usually isn’t any special education or therapy. And autism is not a visible disability, so people think the child is dumb or naughty. A lot of Chinese parents will still reject the idea that child needs extra help. They’ve put all their hopes and dreams on one child, and they’re not prepared to feel their child is not perfect. Their journey is becoming aware, appreciating their child for who they are, and accepting help.

What needs to be done to put more services in place?

EM: It will be slow, because culturally it’s not comfortable. People want to be the same, blend in. We need advocacy, more parents asking for help like the mom in your story. I hope all this will evolve. Younger Chinese people going overseas to university might come out as good special needs teachers or good therapists, and be ready to come back to China to work.

Another aspect is that a couple of schools are strengthening their learning support programs so they can accept children with special needs. The International School of Beijing (ISB) and Western Academy of Beijing (WAB) are both looking into their own programs. We need more inclusive education, instead of the idea of special schools for special children. Inclusion has benefits for both types of children.

I’m hopeful, but it’s still very challenging. My prediction is it will happen, but very slowly.

Photo: Uni You

A Beijing mom’s search for therapy for her autistic son has highlighted the shortage of special needs services in China.

Nicole Simon’s son was diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder at the age of 2. “When he was diagnosed I was told he needed behavioral therapy called ABA (applied behavioral analysis),” she told beijingkids. “It is the only approved treatment for kids with autism and also other behavioral disorders. I was told that the earlier kids get this therapy, the better the chance of their progress and they can lead productive, independent lives. They work on skills that do not come to these kids naturally like eye contact, speech, interactions with other children and adults and how to play appropriately.”

In the US, Simon’s son was receiving 36 hours of therapy a week, in what she describes as “a school-like environment with other kids.” He was making good progress, so before coming to China Simon carried out research into whether the therapy would be available here.

“The issue with this therapy is that it is very expensive,” Simon told us, “and the kids need many hours (depending on their level of functioning). It is also one-on-one, so if one therapist has a child who needs 40 hours then that is the only case they can accept. There are also different levels, and the highest [qualified]sometimes need to supervise cases with the lower level, which decreases the amount of kids they can help. In the US the maximum allowance for insurances is 40 hours per week. In China I was told that the maximum is 15 hours per week, and that is for extremely difficult cases.”

Another problem is the availability of qualified, English-speaking therapists.

“I worked on looking for therapists several months before moving,” Simon said, “and was told the only two places in Beijing that had this therapy were Olivia’s Place and The Learning Frontier. I visited both places in May. The Learning Frontier only had one English-speaking woman therapist, and she has now gone on indefinite medical leave and this location provides no ABA services (at least not in English). Olivia’s Place has a high turnover of therapists. They do provide speech and occupational therapies, but the ABA is something I’m still trying to get my insurance and their billing to work out so that we can get evaluated. They only have one English-speaking therapist from Hong Kong currently and I do not know how many hours they would have available.”

Even when provision is offered, Simon said, staffing remains a problem.

“There is a new center opening early next year called Autism Partnership. They are staffing now and the Hong Kong location is responsible for this. They are having difficulties hiring staff, and especially English-speaking people. They train everyone themselves so I do not think experience in the field is the biggest issue. I have asked if I could assist in finding English-speaking therapists from abroad, and they said they are not open to that at this time because of the costs associated with visas and housing. I was hoping they would have space for my son in this center, but they said they cannot guarantee they will take any English-speaking cases.”

beijingkids contacted the Autism Partnership to find out what qualifications are required to begin the training. While bringing people from overseas is not currently viable, it may be that there are people already in China who are willing to train for what could be a rewarding career. However at the time of writing we have not received any response.

China has come a long way in a short time in terms of understanding of and support for children with learning difficulties. However Simon’s problem illustrates that there is still a severe shortage of appropriate resources, particularly for the international community. If anyone think they can help, or is interested in training as an ABA therapist, then contact us at beijingkids (WeChat ID: AndyKilleen), and we will try to connect you with the right people.

Photo: JoanDragonfly via Flickr

According to RAINN, the largest anti-sexual violence organization in the US, one out of every six women have been the victim of sexual assault, fifty-four percent of sexual assault victims are under 34, and every 98 seconds an American is sexually assaulted.

The office for National Statistics reports that one in five of all women in England and Wales will have been the victims of sexual assault since the age of 16. This is the equivalent to an estimated 3.4 million female victims and 631,000 male victims. A shocking eighty-three percent (5 in 6 victims) of adult victims do not report experiences of sexual assault to the police. These statistics do not take into account the estimated 2.0 million adults aged 16 to 59 who experience domestic abuse each year.

According to UK Children’s Charity, NSPCC, one in 20 children in the UK have been sexually abused, one in three children are sexually abused by an adult and did not report it, and 2,800 children were identified as needing protection from sexual abuse in the years 2016 to 2017.

These numbers are not only extremely shocking but speak of a wider and growing problem with domestic sexual abuse, rape, child sexual abuse, incest, and more, that permeates around the globe. This epidemic creates a number of challenges for local authorities, humanitarian organizations, and the very fabric of society.

The effects of trauma-based experiences, if not dealt with, can last a lifetime and some victims of sexual assault will experience debilitating symptoms that can interfere with daily life. The good news is, there is light at the end of the tunnel should you seek it.

What You Can Do

Recovering emotionally from disaster can be a long journey, but with time and perseverance one can overcome the emotional, physical, and psychological trauma caused by sexual abuse. Understanding the raw emotions and responses that follow traumatic events can help support healing and recovery, and offer coping mechanisms for difficult thoughts and behaviors. Seeking psychological intervention can be effective in preventing and dealing with existing long-term effects, as well as helping you on the path to recovery.

Support Group for Survivors of Sexual Assault and Abuse

Beijing United Family Hospital (BJU) Psychologist Dr. Bojun Hu has initiated a support group for women survivors of rape, sexual assault, and childhood sexual abuse and incest. The small groups of eight to ten people will facilitate therapeutic discussion centered on the following:

• Managing disclosure
• Emotional regulation
• Self-esteem and body image
• Intimacy and sexuality
• Seeking support
• Self-care

This group will be completely confidential and is aimed at supporting women to cope with feelings such as grief, fear, loss, shame, self-blame, and anger. Together survivors of sexual abuse will be given the tools to start healing and issues regarding, power, control, body image, trust, intimacy, and well-being will be tackled using in-depth discussion and yoga practices.

The sessions will be a place for women to strengthen their cognitive and emotional processing, relax, and reconnect the mind and the body. This group will be a source of hope, comfort, and an opportunity for women seeking support to unite with other sexual abuse survivors as they usher in an era for power, autonomy, and wholeness.

To sign up please email fc-rec@ufh.con.cnto express your interest in joining the group or to ask any questions you may have. Female Adults. RMB 600 (per 1.5hr session). RMB 1,200 (mandatory one-hour pre-group interview). March 21 – May 9. Thursdays 6pm-7.30pm. United Family New Hope Clinical Center, 9-11 West Jiangtai Road, Chaoyang District (www.ufh.com.cn/ 5927 7120)

According to this China Daily info-graphic made for Disability Prevention Davy, over 85 million Chinese are currently living with a disability. And what most of us, across cultures, consider to be life milestones (education, friendships, a love life, and a career, for example) can be demonstratively more challenging to achieve for these facing these challenges. There is still often a stigma in China and beyond in terms of addressing these issues for both young and old. While resources for addressing these development issues are still limited, there seems to be a growing number of platforms out there to help young people.

This is one of the reasons why we were so elated to check out the range of services being offered at The Learning Frontier. The fairly new educational company based out of BCIS in Shuangjiing is dedicated to providing bilingual, personalized guidance, and support services for children and families residing in Beijing.

They have on their team a variety of specialists focusing on mental health, education and learning, applied behavior analysis, and speech and language and occupational therapy to assist children and families to better understand their development and to help each child live up to their full potential in school and life.

With extensive facilities designed with both learning and play in mind, they have created a very conducive environment to help children and families work on improving critical thinking, improving motor skills, developing literacy, and more.

Check out this cute animation that they recently made explaining some of the services they offer to develop social skills. If you want to learn more or have a consultation about some more of the specific programs they have, email The Learning Frontier or give them a call to arrange a consultation.

The Learning Frontier
4th Floor, No. 11 Dongbai Lu, Chaoyang District
朝阳区东柏街11号四层
(6775 3268)

Photos: Kipp Whittaker